Best way to ask for a 20‑min chat

Graduated in May and I’m lining up informational interviews with product folks; my LinkedIn messages feel polite but ignorable — what’s a specific opener that gets a yes for a 15–20 minute call? Do you include two time windows up front, drop a Calendly, or ask them to choose, and how soon do you follow up if there’s no reply? If you’ve switched industries, what questions made your chat genuinely helpful instead of small talk?

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But “I’m digging into Acme’s onboarding redesign and have one question about how you validated the first-session KPI — open to a 15–20 min chat next Tue 2–4pm PT or Wed 9–11am PT?” Make the yes a one‑tap decision: offer two slots and “happy to work around you,” but don’t drop a Calendly until they accept; if no reply, nudge once in 5–7 days with a sharper subject. For folks who switched industries, what single question got you the most actionable answer from busy PMs?

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Building on @michael8126, I lead with a recent artifact and one pointed question, plus a small give-back: “If helpful, I’ll send a 5‑bullet recap of what I learn.” Offer two time windows and hold the Calendly until they say yes — it can read like a dentist booking otherwise. If no reply, bump once after 4–5 business days with a fresh micro‑question, then park it.

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